Has anyone any experience of this they could share?
I'm having difficulty with bfing - latching very painful and not getting a full flow to satisfy baby. Now nipples, which were already flat are in such a state that i can't do anything but express having tried to feed myself.
I've had so much conflicting advice, I am just not sure what to do.
- BF Councellor telling me that tongue-tie is there and should be sorted
- GP saying that they try to avoid treating and that it is a case of perservering with bfing once i've healed.
- MW not really interested in tongue tie but saying that with nipples in my state i should just move onto bottle
I am nervous about doing it and then finding that it hasn't done anything and i;ve then put baby through it for nothing. Baby is now 2 weeks.
But, I am convinced, it is not just a case of keep try to bf, baby just cannot get tongue under my nipple so that effective feeding can happen, i end up with lipstick shaped nipples and by the end of the feed, baby still not full up either. If we do nothing, it will be a case of how long I can keep up pumping for.
This whole thing is just putting such a downer on the first 2 weeks, if we don't get this sorted, i really think i am just going to have to go to forumla, i;m ending up wracked with a very hungry baby plus pumping, plus guilt at not being able to feed, meaning that this special time is just passing me by.
But is putting scissors in baby's mouth the answer - wish i could have it done myself instead.
#many thanks