i'm currently bf-ding dd who is 4mths. we had a rocky start but we're getting there, and i fully intend to carry on for as long as we can, i'd love to still be feeding at a year, but i am going back to work soon with no opportunity to express so don't know how my supply will be.
anyway...i'm a bit upset at some of the things my mum and mil have said - they are reasonably supportive and i know people on here have had much worse - but they keep talking about getting bottles/formula in for "after", my mum reckons she'd be sleeping through on formula, etc etc. all the usual stuff, nothing hurtful but i just feel a bit like they can't see why on earth i'm doing it. my mum's jaw dropped when i said 12mths and i even heard little britain mentioned, not in a nasty way but even so. they are both lovely, and i know it is just a generational thing, dh and i were 1970s formula babies.
i'm not an assertive person, and not the type to be strident and bolshy about my choices. i'm just fed up being treated like i'm doing something stupid and unneccessary. does anyone have any advice on what to say to them?
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how did you explain your feeding choices to your mum/mil?
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Caz10 · 01/04/2008 20:15
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