My little one is under 6 months.
In a few e-mails my friend has asked if I was still b/f.
She has said that I have done really well up until now, that my lo will sleep better once she's on bottles, don't go wearing myself out etc.
I had another friend who said similar things when I was b/f my first.
Why can't they accept my choice?
I have never been judgemental with their choice of f/f - one b/f for 2 weeks and the other for about 8 weeks. Their choice and I don't think any less of my friends for stopping when they did. I understood their feeling of guilt and also their feeling of freedom when they swapped, and I wish they could that for me. I don't think I'm a better mum because I choose to b/f my kids.
It's like they are trying to justify ther choices to me - they really don't need to. In fact their need to make me stop is the only thing which sticks in my gullet.
Does anyone else have friends like these?
Before you say "ditch them" - in every other way they're great friends
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I'm upset that my friend disagrees with my choice to b/f
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RubyMurrayMinesACurry · 12/04/2007 22:26
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