I am on my knees. DD2 is 10 days old. She has spent almost the entire time feeding. Latch has been checked and confirmed excellent by two MW's. Checked for tongue tie, all fine. But she spends all her awake time rooting, sucking and crying. Almost as soon as she latches she pulls herself off and then gets upset that she's not eating and repeat 5-15 times before actually eating. MW suggested I may have a slow let down. Eating then lasts approx 5 mins before she falls asleep. If I move a fraction she wakes up wanting more - great - except above process is repeated - latch on/off and fall asleep. I say sleeping, but she's not asleep long enough for it to qualify as sleep and has probably only had a handful of very short day time naps since she's been born. A few nights she's slept for 3 hours or so but that's literally it.
She is clearly exhausted as am I. I have had a grand total of 23 hours sleep in 10 days. I am seeing double, feel sick and have a blinding headache. DH is doing really everything he can to help, including feeding me, all housework, looking after DD1 who is becoming challenging (largely because I am a zombie, she misses me and is being kept awake half the night by a screaming baby), doing all nappy changes and taking DD2 in the night to try and let me sleep...but she just screams for him and wants food. I think she just wants to pacify as she has lots of wet and dirty nappies and is gaining weight. We even tried a dummy but she just spits it out.
DH is back at work soon and I will have both DC on my own in the day time. I don't know how I am going to cope.
Anyone have any ideas on how I can get some sleep into my tired girl and help her eat properly?
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MaverickSnoopy · 24/07/2016 08:43
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