I've been on before for advice about weaning my 2 year old, but it's not going very well and I need help!
DD is recently turned 2, she has been breastfeding once most days, occasionally twice. However she's becoming more and more demanding about it- yanking my top down, twisting my nipples, wanting to stay latched on for hours and having complete meltdowns if I say no- all of which irritates me no end. I can't bear her sticking her hands down my top. So I've been trying to wean her, but it's absolutely torture. I know she's not entirely ready, but I don't think she'll get there on her own any time soon.
Don't offer, don't refuse wouldn't work as she still asks a lot. I've tried cutting down the length of feeds with a countdown- she becomes absolutely distraught. I offer cuddles instead which turns into a terrible struggle as she pulls at my clothes. I explain that she can't have it now, but later and she has a tantrum. If I sit with her for stories/to watch something on tv as a treat it turns into a tantrum.
She's absolutely fine when I'm not around but I need to be able to comfort her without breastfeeding. She woke up an hour ago, so I got her up for a cuddle which ended in a horrible standoff again, so DH had to take over. I feel that out lovely relationship is suffering terribly.
I know I probably should keep going, but I've been ready to stop for quite a while now. Constant comments from my family who seem to think I want her to breastfeed forever don't help.
Does anyone have any advice for gentle weaning that won't end up with both of us frustrated and upset?
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Rinceoir · 01/06/2016 06:59
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