I have read through some old threads on this but nothing exactly matching my situation. I could do with help.
DS2 is 9.5mo and an EBF bottle refuser. DS1 was just the same, and last time and this time I have become depressed and angry as I have not been able to go out at night or have much time away from the babies as they would wake and scream for me. I often feel trapped, lonely, angry and like I've lost myself. I love them dearly and am proud to have BF but really want to stop now.
DS1 was weaned on to a cup (his choice) at 9mo just before I returned to work. We had to go cold turkey, which was awful but worked in the end and he was ok. As soon as he stopped breastfeeding the depression lifted and I felt myself again (aside from mastitis of course )
Now DS2 is the same age. We tried to do cold turkey this weekend but it is so heartbreaking and harder with older DS around. Plus older DS was sick last night so is off school - couldn't deal with both issues so DS2 got boob this morning and that halted our 'progress'. DS2 doesn't really eat a lot yet (BLW) so I worry about him not getting enough generally.
I don't know what I am asking, really... I know I don't have to stop bf just for work, but I do for my sanity, I think. Has anyone been here? I know I'd feel better with some sleep and a few nights out, if he settled well for DH at night.
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Depressed and want to stop BF 9.5mo
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musicmaiden · 17/03/2014 10:13
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