My daughter is a 15 year old usual eye rolling teenager. She seems pretty sensible but follows the crowd. She has a boyfriend who is 17 and she regularly says 'I will be 16 soon and I cant wait' I persist in telling her nothing will change when she is 16 other then she will be at a legal age to do certain things. I recently found a message on the tablet we use which she is asking her boyfriend to buy condoms. I immediately felt sick and destroyed. All the hard work, trying to educate and do the right thing seems to have been thrown completely away. Yes at least she is asking for condoms, I appreciate this is showing maturity but now I know I feel absolutely gutted. I have talked to her about this and asked her not to enter into a sexual relationship as she is too young, but I guess its too late for this now. I have also spoken to her boyfriend and explained she is underage, he agreed and apologised... whether he listened, who knows...! Why do I feel do disappointed, both in myself and at my daughter, its not healthy, and I really don't know how to handle the usual teenager antics as this matter seems to dominate my feelings. Can anybody offer any advice? it would be very much appreciated....
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