DH's 'step'-cousin has very sadly just had their stillborn daughter at 40weeks. She was bleeding heavily and the hospital told her to rest and have a bath and not to panic, she did and started to bleed heavier. She inisisted on going in and they were unable to find the heartbeat. She then went through a very long labour and find had her the next day.
We are not close to them but do get on very well when we meet up at family do's and invite them to our family do't etc...
Sorry, not having known anyone who has had a stillborn baby before I am unsure if what to do next. I didn't feel a 'with deepest sympathy' card was quite right so have bought a 'thinking of you' card.
There is not going to be a funeral just a small private family service.
Does the card sound okay?? If so, when do i send it? She came out of hospital on Thursday and is back at home. I can't imagine how hard it must have been to go home to fully decorated and stocked up nursery without her little girl. Every part of me feels for her as I am so lucky to have two very beautiful children and I cherish them every day.
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StaceySlayer · 15/10/2007 09:58
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