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triplets - thinking of you on 2 june

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jemw · 02/06/2007 08:50

hi triplets,
wanted to let you know I am thinking of you and your family today...

jemw

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ElenyaTuesday · 02/06/2007 11:23

Triplets, I hope you and your family are getting through today as best you can, remembering Matthew.

with love from Elenya

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hoxtonchick · 02/06/2007 11:24

take care triplets. xx

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harrisey · 02/06/2007 16:31

((hugs)) triplets.
Hope your day today is peaceful and gentle
x

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berolina · 02/06/2007 19:51

Am thinking of you too - was just about to start a thread like this. (bit late in the day I know). I hope today is bearable for you.
xxx

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PollyLogos · 02/06/2007 20:34

Yes, I saw a thread early this morning where you mentioned Matthew and have been thinking about you all day. I hope it has been a peaceful day for you all.

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fryalot · 02/06/2007 20:35

xx

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escape · 02/06/2007 20:41

remembering you and your boy today
best wishes xx

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eemie · 02/06/2007 21:18

In memory of Matthew

x

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FioFio · 02/06/2007 21:19

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hazygirl · 02/06/2007 21:34

thinking of you today ,

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beansprout · 02/06/2007 21:35

Best wishes to you and your family x

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Twiglett · 02/06/2007 21:35

Oh Triplets .. yes I have been thinking of you and your beautiful boy Matthew.

Wishing you peace and strength.

Twig xx

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Pinkchampagne · 02/06/2007 21:38

Thinking of you triplets.xxx

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RedtartanLass · 02/06/2007 23:33

Thinking of you all day, haven't "spoke" to you before but read one of your recent posts. Just wanted you know my thoughts are with you and your family.

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Peachy · 02/06/2007 23:42

Hoping you have peace XX

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triplets · 03/06/2007 22:18

Hello everyone,
Oh............I am sitting here and just feel so overwhelmed by you all, thank you, everyone. It is sooooooooo difficult to explain how you feel on those special days, sometimes I feel I should really make the day positive, then another year I just want to hide and cry. Yesterday enroute to the cemetery I stopped by a friends house to pass on some of Rebeccas clothes, she lives next door to a family whose son died three weeks ago, 2 days after his 18th birthday. The father saw me and came across and wanted to talk, he and I had grown up near each other as kids. His pain was so raw, he was painting his garage door which did not need painting, he said he just didnt know what to do with himself, felt he was living in a bad dream, his poor face was just etched in pain. I told him that as we were speaking my son had just died 13yrs ago, and it hurt just as much as that awful June day. He said his son was also buried, and when we got to the cemetery I saw that he was directly opposite Matthew, just feet away. I just cried reading all the cards there for him, cried for his lost life, for his mum and dad, knowing the hell they are going through. Then I went over to Matthew, and cried for us. It drains you, mentally and physically, you wear two faces, one everyone wants to see and one that only you see when you look into the mirror. Wishing it was all the way it was, then looking into the bedrooms of my naughty trio, feeling so blessed to have them, but wanting it all. Then I stop and know that up until 1994 my life was happy, good, some never experience that. Life is truly a lottery, just dont waste a minute of it. xxx

Special "hello" to Pinkchampagne, must meet up. xxx

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triplets · 03/06/2007 22:19

Peachy, thank you. So many people wish us peace.............my surname!

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Speccy · 03/06/2007 22:24

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mynaughtylittlesister · 03/06/2007 22:26

Triplet, I dont really know you that well, only posting on here, but I do live close to you and I think I know the family who lost their son 3 wks ago!

My thoughts go out to you and that family, I can only imagine what pain and emotions you must feel, and even then it probably doesnt come near. God Bless for yesterday!

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triplets · 03/06/2007 22:30

Hi,
Are you in Deal then, if so say hello to me if you see me!

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Pinkchampagne · 03/06/2007 22:34

Hi triplets.

It must be so painful for you each year, you will never lose the memory of your lovely Matthew, and I can't begin to imagine your pain.

I heard from Tessiebear, that you were going round to offer comfort to the family that tragically lost their son recently. I am sure that it is really helpful to them to be able to talk to someone who has some idea of what they are going through.

Thinking of you, and yes, we must definitely sort that meet up! XXX

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mynaughtylittlesister · 03/06/2007 22:38

Yes I am in Deal. I know you on here, but I wouldnt know you in RL. But if I did twig who you were I would yell! Take care.....

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triplets · 03/06/2007 22:44

Hi Pinkchampagne,
I hear your new house is lovely, good for you, glad to hear you are ok. Mynaughtylittlesister, you couldn`t miss me, just look for Deals oldest mother of triplets! Often to be found in the New Inn on a Tues and Frid morning! Sadly just having coffee with my mum! We should have a New Inn meet up!

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triplets · 03/06/2007 22:45

Just thought thats how me and Tessiebear met up!

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Pinkchampagne · 03/06/2007 22:48

A New Inn meet up sounds like a very good plan!

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