When I was age 19 i had a casual relationship with a lad a few years older, would just see each other the odd weekend, might not catch up with each other for a few months, then have another night together, this went on for a couple of years. He didnt always treat me great.
Had other relationships etc in between.
He moved away in 2000 and i heard he had settled down with a partner.
I moved to another country in 2001, we didnt keep in touch, I heard through an aquaintance that he had committed suicide in Nov 2002.
I was pretty devestated at the time, I have a partner and a child yet still think of this person neary every day.
I know we were not ever going to be together, but i always think, what if i had still kept in touch.
I was always kind of a good influence on him, he was quite wild etc and i encouraged him to go to college etc.
I have no photos or anything to remember him by which i find quite hard.
I dont know why I am posting this really and hope it is in the right place.
Is this normal, i have dreams about him regularly and think about him nearly every day. Nearly 5 years later i am thinking about him more often than ever.
Thanks for any advice
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Incodnito · 03/04/2007 14:11
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