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My lovely MIL died very suddenly last week. She lived quite a way from us so DS didn't see her often, but remembered her and spoke about her.
We told him last week that grandma had got very ill very suddenly and the doctor couldn't make her better, and she died. He seemed fine. We had to travel to her home town to sort things out so DS stayed with my mum. No apparent problems.
DH has gone back this weekend to do some work on her house so I've been home with DS. DS has asked a lot of questions which I've answered honestly. All seemed Ok. I told him we would all be going up to see DH's side of the family next week (for the funeral). I told him briefly what would happen and that people might be sad. Suddenly DS has started saying he doesn't want to die. He likes being alive and he wants to stay with mummy. I've reassured him but not sure I've handled it quite right?
He's generally not that sensitive, however we lost our dog this year which, combined with me being pregnant and very unwell seemed to trigger some behavioural issues (mostly at nursery and much improved now).
Just not sure how much of his fretting is normal for a 3YO, or what's the best way of reassuring him?
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LetThereBeCupcakes · 18/06/2016 21:16
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