Is it possible to do some sort of momento/memorial not at a grave yard for someone you have lost?
We live in rented accommodation so not able to plant a tree or similar and my mother was in a different country to me.
I today found out my sister stepdad and niece have picked the gravestone without having consulted me and I feel completely bereft that I was kept out of this decision and as if my mother has died all over again.
I know their thinking was that I was so far away that I couldnt be there. However I would have liked the chance to be there, they didnt even ask.
So Ive sobbed my heart out on both my teenage girls shoulders.. Now I am wondering if I could do something just for me as a memorial for her. Does that exist? I know you can name stars but I would like something that I can see. That I picked that was something that was my opinion.
Any ideas?
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Enkopkaffetak · 29/06/2015 18:23
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