Should I send this photo as a gift?

[Wearit]

My DGF passed away a couple of weeks ago and my Nan's birthday is coming up.

She will be 85 and I was thinking of sending a photo of the two of them together I took at Christmas. It is probably the last photo of them together before he died. However, DGF does not look very well in the picture and has his oxygen tubes in.

Do you think I should send this or a safe generic present.

FYI-she has a recent picture of DGF by the spot he used to sit, and he looks a bit poorly in that one.

Thanks in advance

[Seriouslyffs]

Send her a generic present and give her the photo when you next see her. That way if she's unhappy you can distract her and put it away.

[Wearit]

Great idea, I will send her something safe and give her the picture when I next see her.

She has forgotten I took it so hopefully it will be a nice surprise!