I'm just writing for some support or if anyone's ever felt the same.
My wonderful mum passed away suddenly (she fell on some steps and sustained a closed head injury) almost a year ago today.
All anyone still ever says to me is how lucky I am she met my son, how lucky she was. How I must find comfort in that.
Don't get me wrong I'm not angry at all with these people they want to console me and I would never ever expect them to realise why it gets to me.
So I'm letting off some steam here. He was four weeks when she passed, she didn't see him properly smile, she didn't get to look after him alone which she couldn't wait for and now he's doing so much and she's not here to see. She was the happiest she'd ever been. And yes, it's lovely she'll always be remembered in that way and she always joked she didn't want to get old and frail. But it's like she was so so happy and then it was smashed. Her last conversation was with a taxi driver she didn't know boring him silly about her precious grandson.
Hope this post doesn't offend anyone obviously if it had have happened whilst I was pregnant I'd be thinking different. But I can't help but look at the photo of her holding him and see a thousand unfulfilled plans and promises :(
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Am I alone in hating 'well at least she met her grandchild' in relation to mum dying
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PinkPepper · 16/08/2013 07:14
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