We've had a mad few years, moving about the place and have finally settled down somewhere - I'm hoping for the next few years. I think all the moving about has had a cost. I've noticed that my older dd, 6.5, has recently started hanging around with some girls in her class who are extremely immature, annoying, and babyish. I can totally understand - in my head - that she feels insecure from all the moving and needs to be with girls who are unthreatening - it's a very pushy, academic school which feels like a ladies' academy of the 1950s (it's a state school!)and is full of very bright, confident little girls with reading ages of 10. My daughter is academically bright but not particularly confident. The problem is that she has adopted some of these behaviours - she has always had excellent speech, and has started using baby talk "me want that" etc etc. One of the girls she hangs around with is very loud, charmless and clueless and I find her almost intolerable. Writing this down I realise I sound like some 1950s dragon mother myself, but although I understand my dds need to be with unthreatening friends, I can't stand to have them around and I don't like the way they are influencing her - and I think I am "leaking" my disapproval. Any thoughts?
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magali · 13/07/2005 11:54
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