My DD turned 4 in March, and for the past month or so has just been telling lie after lie. Some are pretty harmless and funny, some are not.
Here are 2 that I think are dangerous.
- She stays with her my mum 1 night a week. The next day I ask her if she had a nice time and did she see Auntie B and Uncle W? She tells me that Auntie B was crying she wanted some chocolate. I asked what happened, DD says she told Auntie B she couldn't have any. Then what, I ask. Auntie B apparently cries more. And then DD tells me that my brother (uncle W) comes into the room, hits my sister and touches her fanny (these are the exact word she uses). I call my mum of course! My brother wasn't even in the house, and its my DD doing the hitting, and of course there has been no fanny touching.
So I say nothng to DD.
This morning..
- DD is crying because she wants me to take her to school, wheelchair hasn't been delivered so this isn't going to happen, DH is getting ready to go. So DD runs into the bedroom tells me that DH pushed her on the bed, shows me that her legs are spread wide and that DH touched her fanny and now she doesn't want to go to school.
This time I tell her that is enough, I tell her that she can't tell lies like that, especially involving touching. It isn't nice to the person she is telling lies about. So she cries and tells me she will stop.
What should I do, I know that she is not being touched inappropriately, someone is always there when these things are supposed to happen.
Is she just acting out because of my increasing inability to do anything, walk and stuff?