We moved from France to Brussels 6 months ago and dd8 feels homesick for France where she was born which I can quite understand and we have loads of positive strokes/hugs/chats about it, but dd is also very jealous of little dd and says that she's ill on purpose and that I never call her darling anymore or do nice things for her/with her, but I feel as though I'm bending over backwards to accomodate bigdd and she's obviously very upset and it's all very real to her . I'm sure it's the perrenial problem of sibling rivalry and I have read some books about it but living in this day to day difficulty is very undermining. (as I had some bonding problems with little dd it exacerbates my guilt and I feel torn every way). Any solutions/been there bits please.
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