O.K. then, my dd2 and I have been struggling of late and I'm not sure if it's me? Maybe I'm expecting too much or maybe it's her age-she was 3 end of April.On a good day she's lively, funny, chatty and lovely to be around. However on a bad day, and we've had more of those than anything lately, she's ridiculously clingy, whingy, moany,stubborn etc. And not nice to be around.
She goes to nursery 2 mornings a week and is very happy there, we have gym/toddlers/visits to friends etc. And dd1 to play with after school.So lifes not that bad for her! So why is she such a PITA!
She's especially difficult over mealtimes.Finding any way possible NOT to eat, by chatting too much,moaning about a speck of this or that, arsing about in any way to the point we've all finished. After much hanging on dh and dd1 will leave the table(as they finished pud etc)and then maybe she'll dain to eat when it's just me and her at the table with much distracting/bribery from me.
So, is this normal for a 3 yr old. It seems such a long time ago that dd1 was 3 I can't remember. And she was also pretty reasonable by 3 (v.much into the big sis role by then).Or am I just a horrid old cow of a mother and expecting miracles.Help!!!!
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batey · 03/06/2003 20:16
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