Not sure whether to post this here or in health so hoping I get some responses here as I'm not sure what to do about DD1.
DD1 is 4.2 and for the past few weeks has been complaining about having a tummyache nearly every time she eats a meal. I don't know if it is psychological or if something is really wrong. She has no other physical symptoms of being ill and is fine when eating snacks etc.
She complains more during her (main) evening meal, seems really down, won't eat etc but 5 minutes prior to eating she has been running around and being perfectly normal. Last night she did this and complained about her tummy ache until bedtime but woke up this morning perfectly happy and ready for breakfast as usual.
Don't really see what the doctor can do as she doesn't have any other symptoms and the pain seems to go away on its own.
I'm wondering if it is psychological but really not sure. She is very sensitive at times, we have a new baby in the house so she is now the oldest of three and she is very aware of the big change that is going to happen in September when she goes to 'Big School'. Her personality has changed a lot of late - she used to be very happy, cheery and helpful at all times now she constantly whinges, is naughty on purpose, answers back and rarely does as she is told. She also has a tendancy to communicate in grunts a la 'kevin the teenager' having been very communicative from an early age. Is this normal or am I doing something wrong? I try to give her as much attention as possible but with the new baby and DD2 having problems as well it isn't possible for me to give her as much as I would like to.
MN verdict very much appreciated as I'm getting quite worried about her, especially the tummy aches .
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Help! DD1 (4yrs) with possible phantom tummy aches.....what do I do?
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BigBadMouse · 17/06/2008 10:05
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