My 2 children have been awful lately with their behaviour, it's been bad but in the last month it's 10 times worse. I've decided to use the playpen that is just used for storing toys for time out instead. I'm thinking of putting it in the other side of the living room so the children can't communicate with one another whilst they're in there.
Dd1 will be 4 in May but she has sn so she is more like an 18 month old in development. Dd2 is 20 months old but as she was 11 weeks early she should be nearly 18 months old.
Should I give warnings before putting them in?
If so how many?
How long should I be putting them in for?
Should I explain why they're going in there?
Should I try to get them to appologise?
Sorry I'm asking all these questions but I'm so confused over it, dd1 looks blankly when I tell her off, for example she takes a toy from dd2 and pushes her over making dd2 cry and when i tell dd1 not to do that as it makes dd2 upset she just goes off to her own world. Or if i tell dd2 off, for example she's climbing dangerously on the top of the settee i tell her off only to have her scream in my face for telling her off.
At the moment life is really hard with them both and this is the only thing i can think of doing which might make life that little bit easier but i'm unsure on how to handle the time out part and i don't want to mess it up and make it worse for us all.
Or if there is any other advice which i might be able to use to help me with my girls could you please let me know.
TIA
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kreamkrackers · 27/03/2008 13:34
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