My dd age 9 has turned into a revolting person over the last few months. I argue with her everyday over basic things like teeth brushing, bed time, homework, hair brushing, getting ready for school in fact it feels like everything. Saturday she spat at me because i didnt say "bless you" after she had sneezed because i didnt hear her.
She was in serious trouble last week at school where of course normally, she is an A+ student, on the gifted and talented list for music and according to her teachers "a joy to teach" (ha!) Her head of year had her across the coals for writing a smutty letter to a boy in her class. When i read the letter which her teacher had sent home, the writing was her friends writing but my dd took the blame(???).
She changed schools in september to a middle school from a lovely lower school in a rural area. her new school is a christian school but is now mixing with older children and to be honest is also being picked on by some of the girls her own age because she is moody.
I had a major operation one week before xmas and have struggled with depression since but this has started to lift dramatically with the help of st johns wort. We have a lovely holiday booked, she has help and support with her homework, i take time out to do girly things with her. i do try my hardest but can not work out how to deal with this horrible arrogance she has adopted.
it made me really cry sunday because my dh was off (first time in ages) and the whole day was ruined cos of her rudeness.
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does anyone else have a revolting dd age 9?
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empty · 11/03/2008 10:08
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