I was not sure whether to post this in health or here, I hope someone can help me. This problem has developed over the last year/18months. The hand washing boils down to her getting rid of germs so that she wont be sick. She has developed a serious fear of vomiting and she washes her hands before eating and if she can eat without touching her food, she will. For example a packet of crisps will be tipped in to her mouth. When she is eating and does use her hands she holds them like a surgeon would before an operation and will only use one hand. If the food falls on the table or she touches it with any other part of her body sghe wont eat it. If she or anyone else touches her food she acts as if she has contaminated it although it is ok if I touch it. I have tried many strategies to help her. I have tried explaining to her if she is going to get a sickness bug it is more likely to come from another person. I have tried playing it down but she does not seem to be getting any better. I am in no way obsessive about hand washing or cleanliness (only in a normal way)so I am not sure how this all developed. I know someone was sick next to her in the lunch hall when she was in reception which she has mentioned but other than that she can not understand it herself. I really want to help her but I dont know how. So far I have not sought any professional advice although I am thinking of talking to the school nurse as she does also deal with mental health issues. Can anyone suggest what to do. I don't want her labeled and I do want her to feel normal.
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DD 8yrs has developed or is developing a hand washing obsession
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MegGriffin · 23/02/2008 21:59
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