dd2 is two and a bit and pushing the boundaries
nothing major, just a bit of pushing, shoving, spitting out food, and general wilful disobedience.
now I am dealing with that in all the usual ways (firm words, firm talking to, ignoring, sitting at the bottom of the stairs for a quite chat etc etc)
the problem is that her four year old sister gets very upset whenever I try and discipline her. they are very close and she just finds it unbearable.
she keeps intervening and wanting to cuddle her to comfort her, saying things like "A is sorry mummy, don't shout at her" and "mummy I won't ever shout at anyone ever" and "mummy it isn't nice to ignore A if you love her" and "I love A even when is naughty and it didn't hurt me and I don't want you to be cross with her"
very often the incidents are directed against dd1, which makes things even more difficult.
can I have some words of wisdom please, about how to handle it because it is making our lives a bit gloomy at the moment
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could I have some advice and wise words, please, about how to handle a tricky discipline/sibling issue?
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harpsichordcarrier · 03/02/2008 20:23
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