I really hope someone has some new ideas I can try to get my 3 year old, Abby, back into her morning routine.
She was ill just before Christmas and had a few "PJ's" days, sitting on the sofa, watching movies and generally just resting.
We had an absolute nightmare getting her into her dress on Christmas morning, she was still coughing and tired and just didn't want to get dressed. She was screaming and crying and worked herself into the state that they can't get themselves out of.
Eventually she fell asleep for 20 minute in the car and woke up perfectly happy. She was on great form for the rest of the day, loving opening her presents and bring the centre of attention with our families.
Since then she has had the same tantrum every morning saying "I don't want to get dressed, I want to go back to bed," even though she's slept well. She screams as though being tortured and working herself into a state while we dress her.
If we are at home for the day or the morning, she'll take the first opporunity to sneak off and appear back, completely naked or with her PJ's back on and looking very pleased with herself.
The first few times I was insistent on her staying dressed and would go through the tantrum 2 or 3 times a day when she undressed to redress her and finally give up and let her stay in her jammies if it was nearly tew time anyway
I just don't know what to do to break her out of this cycle.
I've tried offering her treats while dressing her, to bake or paint or go for a walk, but these havn't worked, when she would normally love this.
I've tried getting her up for breakfast before dressing- this is the way we used to do it before this all started, but when I say it's time to get dressed the tantrums start.
I've tried making her stay in her room until she's ready to get dressed in the morning as she complains of wanting to go back to bed- even though she has slept fine. It got to 12pm one day when I insisted she stay in her room until ready to get dressed, she'd had nothing to eat and didn't seem bothered- all of her determination was on stayin in her PJ's.
Eventually i dressed her- screaming- and brought her downstairs but as soon as she'd eated she disappeared and changed back into her PJ's.
I'm just feel like I'm at a dead end with the whole situation. She is by nature a very happy but stubborn and independant child, preferring to dress herself with minimal assistance until this all started.
I don't know what to do, she was dressed for half an hour this morning and has spent the rest of the time in her PJ's.
I just don't know what else to do, she laughs when I cry from the frustration.
It's soul destroying.
I just don't know what to do, we used to be such a happy family.
Any advice would be most appreciated.
Jen
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jen0202 · 09/01/2008 14:52
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