my dd1 is 4.7yrs and her behaviour since she turned 4 has been getting progressively worse .
She can be so lovely, thoughtful, fun etc but we never have a morning/afternoon/evening without her turning into child of the devil.
She strops, slams doors, hits out at us, dd2 (2.3) and sometimes ds (7 mths), is so rude verbally, throwa things around the room etc.
We've just been at my parents who she really likes and I was so embarrassed by her - calling them stupid, idiot, I hate you and almost spitting at them, kicking the furniture and so on. All of this totally unprovoked.
She can't cope with dd2 getting any attention and behaves like this then too.
We've tried telling her off, using naughty step, trying to reason with her/find out what's wrong, ignoring - all seem to have no effect at all. I've resorted to yelling at her and have been so near to smacking her - something luckily stops me!
I'm sure I'll hear that she's a normal 4 yr old - don't know if that will help or not, but just needed to get this off my chest!
She starts school full time next week - hopefully this will help as she'll have full days so get a bit worn out!
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At my wits end with 4.7yr old dd1 - what am i doing wrong?!
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madamy · 01/01/2008 16:08
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