Hi, I have a nearly four year old and a 16month old both boys. ds1 seems to me to be constantly hurting his brother as well as other children. He pushes, pulls, snatches etc. I have tried loads of positive attention, time outs, ignoring it, reward charts and nothing works. This evening he shut ds2 fingers in letterbox, snatched every toy he picked up, pushed him over and bit him, all in half an hour. The worst and scariest thing is that he seems to enjoy it and smiles when you tell him off. I put him to bed without a story and tried to explain to him why but when I asked him to repeat back to me he had no idea and said something else. He never seems concerned about other children and is turning into a nasty child. I feel so guilty that I am beginning to favour his brother as he is so much easier. Other eople are also making comments about his nastiness although they tell me that at at pre-school he is an angel which makes me feel worse as it must be my fault and I don't want to ruin his life. HELP
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Help, I am beginning to hate my nearly four year old
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benjaminsmum · 28/12/2007 19:25
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