Hi my darling 2 year old has always been an erratic sleeper, she goes through phases of sleeping well to sleeping really badly. At the moment as you may guess we are going through the bad phase again.
Over the last week, she's started waking every couple of hours and crying out, sometimes she will go back to sleep others she stays awake for hours so is really tired in the morning when we have to wake her up.
Last night it all came to ahead, she woke at 1.00 and was still awake at 1.30am, so my DP went in and told her go back to sleep, I ended up going in at 2.00am and she was wide awake, I told her it was still night time and to go back to sleep, gave her a kiss and went back to bed, I hadn't even got back into bed when she started crying, so DP says that always happens when I go as she is going through her clingy phase. He said he was going in to smack her bottom as it was getting ridiculous.
Now I know he wouldn't hurt her, but after smacking on her on nappy she starting screaming hysterically, so I stormed in and took her off him, which I probably shouldn't have done, which resulted in us having a screaming match and DD sobbing her heart out.
Anyway he stormed off downstairs to sleep and I sat in her bedroom for at least 45 minutes and she still wouldn't go to sleep, so I gave in and took her in with me, it still took a further 45 minutes for her to go to sleep, and she still cried out at least twice more before this morning.
I don't know what I expect to get from this message, but it does me good to write it down.
Should I apologise to DP as he feels I've undermined him disciplining DD, or do I carry on with the silent treatment like we always do?????
Thanks
Lisa
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2year old not sleeping and fighting with partner!!!!!!!
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mumsemily · 03/12/2007 09:15
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