My DS1 is nearly 3 and is scared of so many things. List includes; Mr Tumble, Father Christmas, Scarecrows, Clowns, Mary Poppins, Jungle Book, the man with the Yellow hat in Curious George, the dark, dogs, most cats, Finding Nemo, men with facial hair, His great uncle Steve - the list keeps growing.
The fear is really disabling as he clings to me and starts crying uncontrollably and dragging me in the opposite direction. I have tried all sorts - short amounts of exposure, telling him its okay to be scared. It has got to the point now they asked me at nursery whether it was okay for them to make a small santa's grotto.
Sorry to go on but I just want to know that he is not the only one as when I speak to other mothers their kids just don't seem as fearful.
I have a particular problem about christmas as he doesn't want Father Christmas to bring any presents as he is not allowed in our house. I have told him that he will magic the presents into the house from outside but he has even toild me that that him and DS2 have decided not to have any presents this year. I mentioned decorating the tree this weekend and he said he didn't want a tree in our house.
Any advice / help would be appreciated.
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Scared of soo much - sorry long
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Spoo · 30/11/2007 21:17
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