Ok I have three DS, one ten, one 3 and my youngest who is 20 months old. He has always been quite stroppy but of late is getting worse. What makes it harder, I suppose, is my two older boys are so placid and I always felt quite proud of the fact that they were so good. Others would comment on their good behaviour and I would think it must be down to my parenting skills. But this theory has come back to bite me on the bum for being so big headed!!!!! Alas, I feel that some children are just born with that troublesome gene???!!! Whats hard is that after his birth I had PND, so worry that somehow this has affected him. Also I find myself comparing him to them and if he strops in public I say things like "oh hes nothing like his brothers" or "he is my little monkey" that kind of thing. I worry if I label him like that, that he will take it on board and live up to the label as he gets older? He whines, he screams and his strops last forever, in general he drives me crazy. I feel like such a bad mum and also feel guilty for harboring different feelings towards one of my children?? Can it be that I did not bond with him because of the PND, is that what not bonding with your child feels like??????????????
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My youngest DS is 20 months old & is driving me potty...............HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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piscesgirl · 23/11/2007 19:33
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