Hi,
I have posted before about my DD's behaviour and lack of sleep but I have now reched a point when I feel that I have no energy to try with her any more.
She gets up between 4.30 and 6 each morning (regardless of the time she goes to bed) and then refuses to go back to bed.
I think I have tried everything, the put back to bed technique thing from supernanny (who I may slap if I see her) which I have been trying for 2 months with no effect. She is 2.5 weeks into a star chart where if she stays in bed until her alarm goes off at 6.30 for 3 mornings in a row then she gets a star, she had several rewards, with pictures (because I am that creative!!) ranging from a packet of smarties for the first set of 3 up to a large dora present when she is 12 days in. SO far she has stayed in her bed until 6.30 for 3 mornings out of 15. She had the smarties, all going well I thought, and then she lost interest, isnt interested in getting anything else (polly pocket is the next reward and it is sitting on the mantlepiece where she can see it).
The trouble is that her behaviour during the day, as an ofshoot of her obvious tiredness is appalling. I feel completely out of my depth, she does not listen, stamps her feet, runs away whenever we are out etc etc etc. I could go on for days to be honest.
It is now affecting my relationship with DH, I cant see how else to discipline her, make her stay in bed and generally get our lives back on track. At this moment DH is putting a gate on her door and I am typing this and crying. IS the problem with me?? or is there actually something wrong with her?? She just doesnt seem to get what I say to her.
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PLease help I am at the end of my tether....(this could be long)
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loujay · 03/11/2007 14:19
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