DS is nearly 17months old. For months now his bedtime routine has been pretty easy. A cuddle, song etc. Lay him down and he used to cry for about 30 secs when you left the room and then settled to sleep.
Now, he just SCREAMS when you leave the room. We've tried a mini version of controlled crying - i.e 1 minute and then seeing to him, then leaving him again for 3 minutes but it just makes him worse and I do not ever want to do it again because I really think its upsetting for them.
What seems to be the thing is that he likes just having someone in the room with him until he falls asleep. He will look up from his sleep position, check that either myself or DH is there and when he's reassured we are, he snuggles back down again.
I've tried leaving a nightlight on as was worried he was scared of the dark, but that doesn't seem to be the issue.
Any hints/tips on this please? Could it be that as he's getting older he's just becoming more aware that he's in the room alone and finding it scary? That's another reason why I don't want to do CC again because if he is scared, then CC won't do any good....
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What is happening with DS's sleep behaviour???!! Help!
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CrookshanksinJimmyChoos · 06/10/2007 21:56
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