My DS 3yrs 10months has started swimming lessons.
Previously he'd just gone with me and his friend and his mum to their health club pool which was always quiet. He was very confident jumping in from side and bobbing about in middle of pool with his arm bands on shouting "look at me I'm swimming"
Granted We haven't been since January as circumstances havent allowed (have 11 month who was reluctant to be left in creche) but I thought he'd be ok with the lessons.
However he got in last week (1st lesson)freaked as thought was deep and spent lesson sobbing at side. I actually wasn't there as was in hospital having surgery. Today took him myself to his lesson and gave him lots of encouragement. He seemed happy enough and got changed but again refused to go in.
Parents are encouraged to leave but come back if needed so I went in to see how he was. He was really upset.
TBH the instructer was great trying to encourage but not force but he's on own with 7 other preschoolers.
I managed to get DS to sit on side of pool and splash with legs and he even went in water for minute but hung on to me before scrambling out.
Has anyone got experience of this, or tips on how I can help him.
I'm hoping to take hin myself but I have 11 month and no one to help.
I suggested DH take him at weekend but he's unkeen as pool busy
What should I do.
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Babyramone · 28/08/2007 23:05
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