DD, 18 months tomorrow, has never been a long sleeper, but for the last few months, as long as not teething, has gone off to sleep within a few minutes, and usually sleeps through.
On Saturday night she spent her first night without me, but was at MIL's house with dh, and slept in her travel cot, which she's always been fine with. She slept through without problem. Gave me the biggest cuddle ever when she returned home on Sunday morning.
Sunday night she slept at home in her normal cot, and was also fine.
Yesterday we came to stay at my parents for a few days. She took a while to settle off last night, but not too bad. She then woke at 3:30am and stayed awake til 5:45, when I finally got her to sleep in bed with me. I'm in a single up here, so there really isn't room for this, and I got very little sleep as a result.
Tonight, she took 1.25 hrs to go to sleep (only settled whilst I've been writing this).
Both last night and tonight she would settle absolutely fine when I was cuddling her, but as soon as I'd move to put her back down, she would cling to me with her legs, and then start screaming as soon as I lowered her into the cot.
She would call either mummmmmmmeeeeee or boooooobeeeeee (she's still breastfed, although doesn't normally have night feeds) in amongst her screaming.
It's all heartbreaking to listen to, and I can't think what can be causing it, or what else I can do to stop it.
Can separation anxiety happen only at night, and could it be triggered by this series of events? She is quite happy not to be with me during the day whilst we're up here, as she likes playing with my mum.
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Separation anxiety just at night? CantSleepWontSleep needs some support please!
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CantSleepWontSleep · 07/08/2007 21:40
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