DD (3.6) is becoming out of control and I really don't know what to do with her anymore.
She has always been a bit of a headstrong handfull, but she has turned downright nasty over the last two weeks or so. Her new thing is throwing her toys around the house and by that, I mean picking up things like her bike and lobbing them in my direction, she has taken to smacking, biting and scratching me as well as whacking me with a ruler. I'm not over reacting when I say that it hurts! She screams, she throws tantrums, she slams doors in my face.
I have tried to ignore her, but I find it totally unacceptable that she should feel it ok to hit me or any other member of her family. I don't do smacking with her but I'm beginning to think I should just lately. Her new phrase is "I hate you, I want to kill you." which obviously makes me feel terrible.
I have tried shouting and screaming and that doesn't work either. She's been on a pudding ban this week for her behaviour earlier on in the week and this seemed to work well for 3 days before she was off again.
I've tried supernanny tactics, such as the step or chair but she just gets up and runs around and carries on with her reign of terror. I put her back, she screams in my face, kicks me and then runs around some more.
I've tried sticking her in her room, taking away her toys and refusing to take her to my mum's which is a big favourite of hers. I've done all the nicey nicey stuff, praising her when she is good, rewarding her and it doesn't seem to be working.
I don't know what to do, but I reckon I might lose my rag big time with her and end up doing something I'll later regret, like smacking her, which is something that I do not want to do.
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Lazylou · 23/06/2007 20:03
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