At the end of my tether now with the way my three are behaving with each other - DS 9 DDs 8 and 6. Not really helped by DDs having to share bedroom - we are in rented accommodation last 9 months which is too small for us all (moved to new area so also lack of support from friends and family). I am constantly looking for different accomodation but nothing around. But anyway, on days like today when we have to stay in they are just horrible with each other for at least some of every day. Winding each other up, which results in tears, arguing, whining, shouting, and then after a long period of trying to stay calm, DH and me will get upset and the day feels ruined. I do try to have time separately with them, but then this also leads to arguements over who does what! I have read Siblings without Rivalry, which helped a lot when they were younger, but I don't seem to be able to find a way of dealing with them now they are that bit older and they don't want to listen to my attempts at reconciliation/talking through etc. How does anyone else handle this? I feel so envious when other people say their children get on well. I am on a particularly bad day today. Is there an obvious solution I am just not seeing?
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