yesterday i posted on the step parenting thread about the nightmaring holiday i've just spent with my two step sons. beyond tolerable really. however speakign to my mum about it on the phone yesterday made me see that the the eldest may possibly have some behavioural problems.
he is nearly 7. when he is alone he is generally a well behaved boy. however once his 4 year old brother is in the picture he becomes disruptive, he is constantly bickering, bossing and bullying his brothjer who is 4. As my mother said 85% of the time if there is a drama or tears it is caused by dss1, his behavious towards his brother is really quite mean, nasty and is definitely full of deliberate violence, usually for the most trivial of reasons (eg - he kicked him several times because his bother was sitting on his bed)
His parents separated 2 and a half years ago, however he has always been very accepting and lovng with me, so i don't think it's a separational issue.
It has got to a stage now howbver that i really don't enjoy spending time with him because every weekend we have them there are too many occassions to mention where we have to reprimand him for his behavious. Quite frankly I'm at the end of my tether.
Not sure what I want - some advice on how to deal with this would be great, I don't like having to conclude that he is a problem child (he is very intelligent incidentally, and this has now also led to an attitude problem where he is constantly answerign back) but I don'r know what else to surmise from it.
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6 year old bullying his brother - am at my wits end.
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valleygirl · 10/08/2004 11:09
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