hi
hoping for a bit of advice just sent dd1 (almost 8) up to brush teeth etc before bed, and found her using my deodorant, i asked her why she thought she needed it, but clammed up and got upset .
i understand she obviuosly just wants to do what mum does but wondering how to approach this with her as she seems to get very upset and tearful (thinking she is introuble) even though im not acting cross even told her i wasnt cross with her, just said that she didnt really need that yet but when she gets older she will.
but was this the right thing to do, should i maybe buy her, her own deod to let her feel grown up,or get her into good hygiene habits,as a friend of an 8 yr old lad, buys him deod, this is the norm for them.
but not sure if this is b/c he is a boy only have daughters. im no good with this i want to make sure me and dd's have an easy open relationship as mine with my mum is awful and i felt i could approach her about nothing, always went to a family friend/aunty as a teen as just could not talk to my mum. never told her when i started my periods, and it was about a year before she found out, and im worried ill be recreating the same secrecy with dd's if i dont make it the norm for us to be open now IYSWIM
please help have no idea what im doing and have no personal experience to fal back on
all replies gratefully received thanx guys
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help in relation to 7yr old
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mad4girls · 11/05/2007 21:13
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