DS2 (4.5) has suddenly become SOOOOOOO naughty in the last few weeks.
- We've had him taking toys from school (duplo animals) on three successive occasions
- We found that he's scribbled all over the children's wooden chairs in the playroom in permanent felt tip
and just now I have found him in his bedroom cutting all the fur off his toy dog in his bedroom.
In general we've had a lot of answering back/ shouting at me and slamming doors.
I was v. angry over 1) & 2) and he was made to apologise to teacher, and lost some of his favourite toys for a few days.
Thing is, he doesn't seem remorseful and semi-smirks at me when I tell him off. I'm at a loss of how to get through to him that this is unacceptable behaviour. Am I expecting too much? Thing is, we didn't have anything like this from DS1 at the same age, and I'm sure he knows these things are wrong.
DOn't know how to punish for this latest episode (I appreciate that it's not the worst thing ever, but I want him to know that we don't consider destroying property acceptable...)
What would you/ have you done in similar situations? Does it work?