I've had a nightmare with getting my boys to school this morning, and I can't work out which of them was the naughtiest and could do with an objective view on it (and maybe some advice, cos this kind of thing can happen a lot)
my youngest ds 3 wanted to hold hands with his brother 6 on the path up to school, my eldest refused saying his hand was too warm! the 3 year old starts crying, the 6 year old gets stubborn and cheeky. I asked the 6 year old if he would help me out by holding his hand because he was upsetting his brother by refusing and then he starts crying. so I've got 2 of them crying, neither wanting to 'give in' we just about got to school in time but it took me ages to console both of them before starting and it was all so unnecessary but i'm struggling to work out who was in the wrong. the 3 year old is bossy and wants everything his own way but the 6 year old was purposefully being spiteful.
how do I deal with this in the future? any advice gratefully received.
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which of them was in the wrong?
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howardbear · 26/09/2016 11:05
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