I am really struggling to cope with my 4 year old dad's behaviour. She has become bossy, defiant, moody & argumentative and she shouts & screams constantly. She goes to a childminder/pre-school until early afternoon each day & then home. It's like a switch is flipped when she comes home with me as both her childcarers have said she is very good & a quiet little girl!
She will not do anything I ask her without a struggle, she complains about every meal I try to give her, she orders me around like I'm a servant & generally plays up. She argues constantly with her brother who is 8 and it doesn't help that he winds her up all the time & she reacts.
Yesterday we were having a family tea and she picked up a forkful of rice and threw it at me across the table. DH was really cross and put her in her room where she screamed.
She goes out in the garden now the weather's warmer & shouts about everything she's doing. She doesn't just talk, she shouts. If DS is out there it won't be long before she is screaming at him or crying. I spend my whole time asking her to quieten down but she takes no notice. Our neighbours must hate us as they are constantly out there bickering & screaming.
I have tried the naughty step but she just gets off it. Putting her in her room works but the at this rate she will be spending most of her time in her room.
Please can anyone give me some advice on how to regain some control of her. I am literally fighting with her over everything and it's exhausting me. I actually thought this afternoon I'd be better off working full time as it would be easier!!
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My 4 year old's behaviour is exhausting me, help please
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Trickymoments · 25/07/2016 20:12
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