Ok, I suspect most of you will say I just have to ride out the terrible twos but I desperately need ideas for disciplining DS that will actually work.
When he's on his own he can be lovely and calm and sweet - but the SECOND his sister (6) gets in from school he is a fiend and it is making life pretty miserable. He will jump on her, wrestle her, hit, destroy whatever game she is playing - and this is constant. You can tell when hes going to "strike" as he clenches his fists and jaw and runs around hyped up and shrieking like he's on something. When he hits her, he has a wicked grin on his face like he knows exactly what he's doing. Poor DD does absolutely nothing to encourage him - she is a really good girl.
No punishment works as he just doesn't care. We are definitely not soft touches with him - if a punishment is threatened, it is always followed through but he's just not bothered. An HV advised me to be consistent with him and he should get the mssg but he's been like this a good 6 months now and consistency is doing nothing. We have been putting him in his cot for time out as soon as he hurts her and he'll just sit there shouting for 20mins then come back down and do it again. I've tried taking favourite toys away - that doesn't work either.
It's got to the point where I dread weekends as we just spend the whole time shouting and telling him off. I've been so close to smacking him but I REALLY don't want to do that as we aren't smackers. And it's poor DD who really suffers as she can't do anything without him ruining it or hurting her. Fgs, she was sitting reading a book just now and he threw himself on the book and started trying to rip the pages out.
Please tell me you've got some suggestions.....pleeeaaaase......
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Getting desperate - what discipline will work on 2.5yr old?
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Chocwocdoodah · 24/07/2016 08:24
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