On a playdate yesterday a 5 yr old boy put his hands round my 5yr old DD's neck hard enough to make her very distressed and cry a lot. They were playing on the trampoline alone, I didn't see and according to my DD they weren't fighting or even talking. I was quite shocked that any harm should come to her, she's very gentle and quiet but the being grabbed around the neck seems quite shocking to me. I tried to point out to the mother of the boy what had happened by saying to my DD "so he grabbed you around the neck?" in her ear shot and all the mother would say was "say sorry and be gentle". I told my husband and he too was shocked and said the next time I see the mother I should talk to her about it. I'm quite shy about awkward discussions and would rather not and thought maybe I could run it by their teacher and see what she thought. Its my child so I can appreciate that I am taking it very personally. Has anyone experienced this - is it sort of normal boy behaviour?
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On a playdate a 5 yr old boy put his hands round my 5yr old DD's neck hard - should I be concerned?
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reallyconfusedmostofthetime · 01/06/2016 22:41
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