I know siblings fight, I fought with my older brother and sister, but am at the end of my tether with my two boys.
One is nearly 3 and the other is 7. Both boisterous and loud and quite entertaining as most boys are of this age. They play hard and well together but they also fight a fair bit too.
But, am fed up with the squabbling, arguing and fighting it keeps happening. Both do not listen to me and I have quite a stern voice when talking to them. They may stop when I tell them to but when I leave the room, one of them will get hit by the other one and it starts all over again.
It is usually ds2 who gets physical first, he has just started Nurserey so he is beginning to "survive" in a way. But he hits and kicks ds1 alot and normally he is first while ds1 who is 7 will be more verbal to begin with but then retaliate quite roughly.
Not sure what to do, I've sent them in seperate corners, I have turned the Tv off, taken toys away, they are driving me up the wall.
One day it was so bad that I nearly lost it with them both and they almost reduced me to tears (and I would consider myself a strong person).
I tell them each time not to do it and it can really hurt the other one and I always make them apologise to one another once things have calmed down. But some days, I really do feel like walking away and leaving them to get on with it, but I can't.
Anybody else feel like this or is it just me and my boys.
They've even started now, so I've got to go.
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Fighting Siblings !!!!!!
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moosh · 16/01/2007 16:17
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