Dear lovely ones of mumsnet.
I don't really know where to begin with all of this. I'm very concerned about my darling ds. He's 21 months old and is just... Different.
He only says 1 word- mama. Which means 'i won't' 'i want' 'mine' 'more'... Basically anything except calling for me. He's making no attempt at all at other sounds except... Growling. And I don't mean cute dinosaur roars... I mean very aggressive load growls when he feels angry- which is most of the time, or when he sees someone he doesn't like... Which is just about everyone.
He has the most God awful temper, thrashing and screaming for the tiniest things - too much butter, not enough butter, there is a butterfly in the garden... You get the picture.
He has now started attacking me physically. Scratching my eyes, neck face. Hitting me. Pulling my hair until I cry. Biting me.
He's also started smacking his head repeatedly on the floor or furniture. No amount of cuddling can reassure him. When I'm reading him a book he'll just get down and wander off as if I'm not there.
He's my third... And I've heard 'oh the others are talking for him'... But they are not because he largely ignores them. They are also at school and preschool for large chunks if the time and it's just me and him.
I've tried sing and sign, bath games, just tried loving him into loving me.
I love him so so much. He was such a difficult baby and it was a terrible pregnancy, but sometimes, when he laughs I can forget that he just seems to regard me as an alien most of the time.
What do I do? He's so beautiful and I just want to make him happy.
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aggressive non-communicative 21 month old ds
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Mrsfullhouse · 08/05/2016 16:03
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