He is just driving me insane at the moment. I'll list a few things that are happening:
I took him to toddler group the other day. We don't go very often anymore. At the end of the group the children each choose a musical instrument then are each asked to choose a song they would like to sing. Rather than singing like all the other children with their mummies he ran around shouting "STOP SINGING!!". He threw a paddy when it was time to pack the toys away and another one when asked to hand back the musical instrument. He was climbing up the slide when another child was trying to slide down it and WOULD NOT LISTEN to me when I tried to reason with him, just kept doing it over and over again.
We went to a preschool settling in session. I do realise it is an unfamiliar situation and environment for him but again when asked to put a toy away because it was story time he just kept going back for it even though I explained it to him. At snack time the children had to sit around a table and choose one piece of fruit from the bowls that were passed round, put it on their plate and wait until everyone was ready to start. He couldn't grasp the concept of waiting and just wanted to eat his fruit straight away, ignored instructions from myself and the preschool teachers to wait and then got upset when I tried to stop him.
At home when he's naughty I will tell him to stop, he'll always carry on and I'll tell him again and again until it escalates to me shouting at him and sometimes really losing my temper. He ignores instruction and is completely unphased by being told off. I do the naughty step and this works for a short period of time though I must say I'm rather stumped if he refuses to apologise.
I find it so embarrassing in front of people and quite frankly feel like a totally shit mother as I can't even control my own child.
Is this normal behaviour? Other people I know don't seem to have this problem. How can I deal with it?
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Is this normal for a 3 year old?
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LMonkey · 22/12/2015 22:54
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