DD is nearly 2. For several months now she's been banging her head, hard on the floor or top rail of her cot. Not a rhythmic soothing thing, a really hard injuring herself thing. She'll do it a couple of times then cry because it hurts then do it more but keep stopping and crying and then doing it again. It happens at the slightest provocation, us saying no to anything, taking away something she shouldn't have, no reason at all seemingly a lot of the time. It's not possible to calm her, picking her up just makes her more distressed. We've had to build a padded play pen to keep her safe, it breaks my heart.
She also hits herself in the head a lot. She does have a bit of a weird hand flappy thing sometimes and shakes her head lots.
All my googling gives the same results, it can be a sign of autism or other behavioural issues. Nowhere can I find what these other behavioural issues might be.
Autism simply doesn't seem to fit. She interacts well with adults and other children. Brings toys to me to ask for help with them, goes to comfort other children when they cry, that sort of thing. Her language is slow, but all I've got to compare her to is her older sister and cousins who all spoke in sentences by their second birthday so I don't think I'm necessarily judging from a fair standard, no one else seems to think she's behind. She has quite a lot of words, just nouns really, and we occasionally get two together but not often. A lot of the time she'll refuse talk, I point to a picture in a book and ask her what it is but she won't say even though I know she knows the word.
She's been seen by HV, GP and consultant paediatrician (last one for something else but we did discuss it since I was there), all of whom have been no help whatsoever, all they say is try to distract her. Had a hearing test that was fine. HV is coming back as head banging is escalating, massive meltdowns several times a day.
Any ideas please? I'm getting rather desparate.
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Head banging, not autism so what is it?
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Pseudo341 · 03/10/2015 09:11
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