Have posted on here before about how DH feels left out at times as our DD (22 months) generally favours me.
I, along with advice from others on here, have tried to reassure him that it's quite natural for very young children to favour their mums. Plus I've said there'll be times in the future where she'll favour him over me.
Tonight he said he feels like a "spare part". It was really upsetting to hear :(
This comment followed an incident where DD was continually trying to do something DH and I didn't want her to do. She was being a typical
headstrong toddler and not listening to our reasons. DH physically removed her from the situation to try and fully get her attention to try and explain the reasons why we were saying what we were saying but he came back frustrated, saying she wouldn't even look at him when he was speaking and that she has zero respect for him. Personally I don't think a not-even-2-year-old can have respect! They're still learning!
Earlier today we took her on the slide and she was "mummy, mummy, mummy" the entire time. I was consciously aware of this and felt bad for DH.
She does have her moments with him but nowhere near as much as with me.
I do encourage her to be more "daddy, daddy, daddy" but I can't exactly force it!
My upset though is for DH. I really don't know what else I can do but I know it's really really bothering him
:(
Any ideas?
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How can I help DH?
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Taler · 26/09/2015 22:07
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