Dd is 4.5 start reception in September, her behaviour is very difficult at the moment and it is stressing dp and I out a lot. Dd is ignoring us, answering back, screaming and shouting when things don't go her way all very frustrating.
A few incidents recently, we had a guest over and dd was mithering them a lot it was almost bedtime so we distracted the situation by getting pj's on once that was over dd went back to doing the same thing, we had had a calm little chat whilst getting changed about not jumping on people giving them space etc but dd continued after pj's were on. I asked her to come and sit by my and we would read a book - she ignored this, dp then said time out if you can't calm down, cue dd point blank refusing then hittimg and kicking dp. Dd went straight to bed and both of us had a chat to her about the reasons why she was sent to bed.
We're also having a lot of issues over toys and 'sharing/taking turns' where dd will cry and stamp her feet if she doesn't get what she wants i.e. suddenly deciding that she wants what dd2 (2.5) is playing with and trying to force it of her (usually after me finding something similar for dd2 to play with as she wants what dd1 originally has). Similar to wanting dd2 to move because she wants to sit where dd2 is. Both resulting in wailing and stamping her feet.
Both dp and I have agreed that time outs are not working, we need to find an alternative what else do we do when dd just completely ignores what we are asking her to do??
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4 yo behaviour very trying at the moment.. help.
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DeathMetalMum · 15/08/2015 19:05
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