dd (3) is pretty much 50/50 brillant/pain in the... i am alone with her, and sometimes it feels like (and i am aware this is my fault) we are to kids squabbling. i feel like i dont have the requisite authority. the only examples i can think of are running around the room when its time to get dressed, hitting when she is mad, drawing on the table, throwing her plate because she refused to eat her supper and i refused to make her something diff. all little things, but all - it seems to me (feel free to correct me) - connected to discipline and boundary pushing.
anyway... ive tried counting to 3, and taking things she likes for a specified period of time, and the naughty step (does not work with her. because she pretends she llikes it). so - was wondering about star charts. but arent they rewards for good behaviour? can i make it work where stars are dedcuted for being a pita? i guess the attraction is the idea that something - reward/punishment - is cumulative. does that make sense?
would be greatful for any/all advice
nb - she is a shocking sleeper too. so if i could use it for that too, so much the better.
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poshgirlformerlymaggiesmama · 22/11/2006 20:57
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