My ds is 2 in early September and our first child. He is generally a very happy and enjoyable child and we are very hands on with him so he is used to a lot of our time probably too much really. All good behaviour until I show attention to another child. Then he screams blue murder and goes to hit the child I am showing attention to.
I really don't understand it, he is around children at playgroups and family and has been since birth and so we thought he would improve with time. If anything it is getting worse. Yesterday I took him to visit my sister and my baby niece. Of course I was giving the baby cuddles, while also trying to still give attention to ds, but he was not having any of it. 4 times he went to hit her, in the end I had to keep handing her back to my sister which is a shame because i don't often see my niece. We then tried to get ds involved with the baby so he was holding the bottle for the baby and showing her a toy, all good, until I held her!
It's getting to the point now when I am starting to dread taking him around family children because he really does kick off and tantrum. I have always stopped him before he has hit another child but I worry that i won't always manage it. He hates another child coming anywhere near me. We try disciplining him, telling him to be gentle and getting him involved all playing together etc but nope still he reacts the same if a child goes near me.
Any tips on getting my toddler to react better when he sees me with another child? We would like another child but the way my ds acts around other children it is putting me off the idea!
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